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Protecting Children From Sexual Abuse |
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The typical advice "Don't Talk to Strangers" doesn't apply
in this case. Most sexual perpetrators are known to their victims. |
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Do not instruct children to give relatives hugs and kisses.
Let them express affection on their own terms. |
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Teach your children basic sexual education. Teach them that no one should
touch the "private" parts of their body. A health professional can also help to communicate sex education to children if parents
are uncomfortable doing so. |
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Develop strong communication skills with your children. Encourage them
to ask questions and talk about their experiences. Explain the importance of reporting abuse to you or another trusted adult.
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Teach your children that sexual advances from adults are wrong
and against the law. Give them the confidence to assert themselves against any adult who attempts to abuse them. |
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Make an effort to know children's friends and their families. |
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Instruct your child to never get into a car with anyone without your
permission. |
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Teach your children that their bodies are their own. That it is OK to
say they do not want a hug or that certain kinds of contact make them uncomfortable. |
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It is important to remember that physical force is often not necessary
to engage a child in sexual activity. Children are trusting and dependent and will often do what is asked of them to gain
approval and love. |
